Wife Blog Series

By Edwin Christiaan

May 4, 2022

THE WIFE LISTENER

When the Bible says, “Husbands, treat your wife with understanding as you live together.” 1 Peter‬ ‭3:7‬ ‭NLT it means that the husband should listen to his wife to know how she feels, what she is thinking about, or what her needs are. That is why the Bible also says, “A married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife.” 1. Corinthians‬ ‭7:33‬ ‭NLT‬‬


May 2, 2022

A BAD WIFE DEAL

“A quarrelsome wife is as annoying as constant dripping.” Proverbs‬ ‭19:13‬ ‭NLT‬‬

That’s why, “It’s better out in the desert than at home with a nagging, complaining wife.” Proverbs‬ ‭21:19‬ ‭CEV

‬‬Or, “It’s better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife in a lovely home.” Proverbs‬ ‭25:24‬ ‭NLT‬‬


April 27, 2022

THE ONE I LOVE

“Most beautiful of women, why is the one you love more special than others?” Song of Songs‬ ‭5:9‬ ‭CEV‬‬

See, “A beautiful woman who lacks discretion is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout.” Proverbs‬ ‭11:22‬ ‭NLT‬‬

But, “Women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do.” 1 Timothy‬ ‭2:10‬ ‭NLT‬‬

That’s why, “Charm can be deceiving, and beauty fades away, but a woman who honors the Lord deserves to be praised.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:30‬ ‭CEV‬‬


April 20, 2022

HUSBAND MUST BE A WIFE LOVER

“A husband should love his wife as much as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:25‬ ‭CEV

‬‬“In the same way, a husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself. A husband who loves his wife shows he loves himself.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:28‬ ‭CEV

‬‬“So each husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself,” Ephesians‬ ‭5:33‬ ‭CEV‬‬

Yes, “A husband must love his wife and not abuse her.” Colossians‬ ‭3:19‬ ‭CEV‬‬


April 16, 2022

ON YOUR BIRTHDAY

“Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who loved us and by His grace gave us eternal comfort and a wonderful hope, comfort you and strengthen you in every good thing you do and say.” 2 Thessalonians‬ ‭2:16-17‬ ‭NLT

‬‬I love you!


April 8, 2022

TO MY GOD-FEARING WIFE

“A worthy wife is a crown for her husband, but a disgraceful woman is like cancer in his bones.” Proverbs‬ ‭12:4‬ ‭NLT‬‬

See,

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:30‬ ‭NLT‬‬

That’s why I,

“Show her respect— praise her in public for what she has done.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:31‬ ‭CEV


April 1, 2022

“As far as the Lord is concerned, men and women need each other.” 1 Corinthians‬ ‭11:11‬ ‭CEV

‬‬Meaning; If it wasn’t for this woman, I wouldn’t be the man that I am today!


March 20, 2022

WHAT MAKES A WOMAN HAPPY?

Is when her husband Is good to her. When he honors her and delights in her. (See 1 Peter‬ ‭3:7‬)


March 18, 2022

A TRULY GOOD WIFE

“Her husband depends on her, and she never lets him down. She is good to him every day of her life,”‭‭ Proverbs‬ ‭31:11-12‬ ‭CEV‬‬

“When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:26‬ ‭NLT

‬‬“There are many good women, but you are the best!” Proverbs‬ ‭31:29‬ ‭CEV‬‬


March 15, 2022

WORDS ABOUT A GOOD WIFE

“A wise woman builds her home,…”‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭14:1‬ ‭NLT

‬‬“She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:20‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“She is strong and graceful, as well as cheerful about the future.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:25‬ ‭CEV

‬‬“When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:26‬ ‭NLT‬‬


February 7, 2022

WHEN YOUR WIFE IS FROM GOD

When a husband’s wife is given to him by God, he can say the following things about her,

“A man’s greatest treasure is his wife— she is a gift from the Lord.” Proverbs‬ ‭18:22‬ ‭CEV‬‬

“A helpful wife is a jewel for her husband,…” Proverbs‬ ‭12:4‬ ‭CEV‬‬

“Fathers can give their sons an inheritance of houses and wealth, but only the Lord can give an understanding wife.” Proverbs‬ ‭19:14‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“A wise woman builds her home,…“Proverbs‬ ‭14:1‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:26-27‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:11-12‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Yes,

“And with great pride her husband says, there are many good women, but you are the best! Charm can be deceiving, and beauty fades away, but a woman who honors the Lord deserves to be praised.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:28-30‬ ‭CEV‬‬


February 2, 2022

MARRIAGE MUST BE A GIFT FROM GOD

“God gives the gift of the single life to some, the gift of the married life to others.” 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:7‬ ‭MSG

‬‬In other words, it is God who decides whether you should marry. When He is the one who gives you the gift of marriage, your relationship with your spouse will always be good! You will experience being loved, honored, respected and cared for. That’s why the Bible says,

“So don’t be misled, my dear brothers and sisters. Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens.” James‬ ‭1:16-17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Therefore, a God given marriage will never lead you away from Jesus Christ into confusion, power struggle, emotional and physical abuse, sexual immorality, un-forgiveness, hatred and divorce.


January 31, 2022

A BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGE

A beautiful marriage is when a husband and wife are always humble and gentle. They patiently put up with each other and love each other. They try their best to let God’s Spirit keep their hearts united. They live at peace with each other! (See Ephesians‬ ‭4:2-3‬)


January 26, 2022

A CHRISTIAN HUSBAND OUGHT TO BE LIKE JESUS

“For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:23‬ ‭NLT‬‬

It means, a husband should act with the same attitude that Jesus Christ had and that is; not being jealous or proud, but humble, considering his wife more important than himself. He should care about her as much as he cares about himself. (See Philippians‬ ‭2:3-5‬)

In other words, “A husband should love his wife as much as Christ loved the church (His Bride) and gave His life for it.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:25‬ ‭CEV‬‬


January 20, 2022

MARRIAGE CLASS

In the Bible book of Genesis it says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” Genesis‬ ‭2:24‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

Jesus used the following passage when He was talking to the Pharisees about marriage and divorce:

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?” Matthew‬ ‭19:5‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

The apostle Paul also used this verse when he taught about wives and husbands:

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:31‬ ‭NKJV

‬‬In other words, A husband must leave the authority of his parents. If not, problems will certainly arise in the marriage. As a married couple, they are to serve Jesus Christ together as a unit and raise their children to serve God. The husband must focus on meeting the needs of his wife. In every way the couple is to become one; emotionally, physically, spiritually, and in matters of finances.

“The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.” 1. Corinthians‬ ‭7:3-4‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“But a married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife.” 1. Corinthians‬ ‭7:33‬ ‭NLT‬‬

“But a married woman has to think about her earthly responsibilities and how to please her husband.” 1. Corinthians‬ ‭7:34‬ ‭NLT‬‬


January 14, 2022

A GODLY MARRIAGE DEFINED

The Bible says,

A husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself. A husband who loves his wife shows he loves himself. None of us hate our own bodies. We provide for them and take good care of them, just as Christ does for the church, because we are each part of His body. (Ephesians‬ ‭5:28-30‬ ‭CEV‬‬)

In other words,

If a husband hates or rejects himself, he will not be able to love his wife as Jesus loves His church. Therefore, he has no business being in a marriage, because what you don’t have, you cannot give!


January 10, 2022

THE GODLY HUSBAND MANUAL

A husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs. He belongs to his wife instead of to himself. (See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:3-4‬) A husband has to think about his earthly responsibilities as how to please his wife.‭‭ (See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:33) A husband must be good to his wife. He has to honor her and delight in her. A husband must treat his wife with understanding. She may lack some of his advantages, but she is his equal partner in God’s grace of new life. A husband must treat his wife as he should so his prayers will not be hindered. (See 1 Peter 3:7)

In other words,

“Each husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:33‬ ‭CEV‬‬


January 8, 2022

GOD GIVEN LOVE INSTRUCTIONS

“A husband must love his wife and not abuse her.” Colossians‬ ‭3:19‬ ‭CEV‬‬

“A husband should love his wife as much as Christ loved the church and gave His life for it.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:25‬ ‭CEV‬‬

“A husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself. A husband who loves his wife shows he loves himself.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:28‬ ‭CEV‬‬

Therefore, a husband must not hate his wife, which is his own body. He must instead provide for his wife and take good care of her, just as Christ does for the church, His body. (See Ephesians‬ ‭5:29-30‬)


January 3, 2022

THE TASK OF ME AS A HUSBAND AND FATHER CONTINUES IN 2022

And that is,

Husband, love your wife and never treat her harshly. (See Colossians‬ ‭3:19‬)

Husband, love your wife as much as you love yourself. (See Ephesians 5:28)

Father, do not aggravate your child, or she will become discouraged. (See Colossians‬ ‭3:21‬)


December 22, 2021

I wouldn’t be the man that I am today if it wasn’t for this beautiful God given woman! That’s why I, “Show her respect— praise her in public for what she has done.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:31‬ ‭CEV‬‬


November 28, 2021

THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT MY WIFE “Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:31‬ ‭NLT‬‬


July 4, 2021

WIFE TALK

“Every good and perfect gift comes down from the Father who created all the lights in the heavens.” James‬ ‭1:17‬ ‭CEV‬‬

Therefore, “A truly good wife is the most precious treasure a man can find!” Proverbs‬ ‭31:10‬ ‭CEV‬‬

“She is a gift from the Lord.” Proverbs‬ ‭18:22‬ ‭CEV‬‬


May 9, 2021

BEAUTIFUL MOTHER!


May 4, 2022

THE WIFE LISTENER

When the Bible says, Husbands, “Treat your wife with understanding as you live together.” 1 Peter‬ ‭3:7‬ ‭NLT

‬‬It means, That the husband should listen to his wife to know how she feels, what she is thinking about or what her needs are. That is why the Bible also says, “A married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife.” 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:33‬ ‭NLT‬‬


March 5, 2022

A HUSBAND MUST KNOW HOW TO LOVE

Husband, love your wife and never treat her harshly or abuse her. (See Colossians‬ ‭3:19‬)

“A husband should love his wife as much as Christ loved the church and gave His life for it.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:25‬ ‭CEV‬‬

Loving your wife as Christ love the church means that you go all out in your love for her, a love that is marked by giving and not getting. Everything you say or do is designed to bring the best out of your wife. Your honoring words draw out her beauty!


March 3, 2022

GET YOUR PRAYERS ANSWERED BY TREATING YOUR WIFE RIGHT

The Bible says, Be a good husband to your wife. Honor her and be thoughtful of her. As a woman she lacks some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, she is your equal partner. Therefore, treat your wife as you should so your prayers will not be hindered. (See 1 Peter‬ ‭3:7‬)


February 19, 2022

WHEN A MARRIAGE IS MEANT TO BE

The apostle Paul teaches the New Testament believer,

“God gives the gift of the single life to some, the gift of the married life to others.” 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:7‬ ‭MSG

‬‬It for this reason that Jesus said,

“And no one should separate a couple that God has joined together.” Mark‬ ‭10:9‬ ‭CEV‬‬

Therefore, the man and woman that God puts together will,

“Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage.” Hebrews‬ ‭13:4‬ ‭NLT‬‬


February 17, 2022

THAT’S HOW I KNOW HER

“She is energetic and strong, a hard worker.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:17‬ ‭NLT

‬‬“She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:20‬ ‭NLT

‬‬“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:25‬ ‭NLT‬‬


February 14, 2022

MY EVERYDAY VALENTINE

“A truly good wife is the most precious treasure a man can find! Her husband depends on her, and she never lets him down. She is good to him every day of her life,” Proverbs‬ ‭31:10-12‬ ‭CEV‬‬

See,

“Charm can be deceiving, and beauty fades away, but a woman who honors the Lord deserves to be praised.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:30 CEV‬‬


February 13, 2022

IS THIS THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO MARRY?

She dresses fancy and seductively. She is one of those women who are loud and restless and never likes to stay at home. She will not accept your authority and submit to you. To the contrary to God’s Word, she will be the one who will lead you, boss you around, telling you what to do. She depends on the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes, instead of the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and humble spirit, which is so precious to God. She is rebellious. She will act religious, but will reject the power that could make her godly. Such women are forever following new teachings, but they are never able to understand the truth. Such women claim to know God, but their actions prove they really don’t. They are disgusting. They won’t obey God, and they are too worthless to do anything good. (See Proverbs‬ ‭7:10-11‬, 1 Peter 3:1, Ephesians 5:24, 1 Timothy 2:12, 3-4, ‭‭2 Timothy‬ ‭3:5, 7‬, Titus 1:16)

Now the Lord is warning you!

“My son, pay close attention to what I have said. Don’t even think about that kind of woman or let yourself be misled by someone like her. Such a woman has caused the downfall and destruction of a lot of men.” Proverbs‬ ‭7:24-26‬ ‭CEV‬‬


February 11, 2022

THE WOMAN I AM MARRIED TO

The woman I am married to does not depend on things like fancy hairdos or gold jewelry or expensive clothes to make her look beautiful. She is beautiful in her heart by being gentle and humble. This kind of beauty will last, and God considers it very special. (See 1 Peter‬ ‭3:3-4‬)

Yes,

“For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do.” 1 Timothy‬ ‭2:10‬ ‭NLT‬‬


January 18, 2022

YOU SHOULD NEVER MARRY ANYONE…

“Who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people.” 1. Corinthians‬ ‭5:11‬ ‭NLT

‬‬Who is not patient and kind, who is jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. Who is selfish or quick tempered. Who keeps records of wrongs that others do. (See 1. Corinthians‬ ‭13:4-5‬)

Who loves only him or herself and money. Who scoffs at God, and is ungrateful. Who is unloving and unforgiving; who slander others and have no self-control. Who is cruel and hate what is good. Who betray friends, is reckless, is puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God. Who act religious, but reject the power that could make him or her godly. Stay away from people like that! (See 2. Timothy‬ ‭3:2-5‬)

Who gives up, loses faith, is not hopeful, and does not endure through every circumstance. (See 1. Corinthians‬ ‭13:7‬)

“Who cause divisions and upset people’s faith by teaching things contrary to what you have been taught. Stay away from them. Such people are not serving Christ our Lord; they are serving their own personal interests. By smooth talk and glowing words they deceive innocent people.” Romans‬ ‭16:17-18‬ ‭NLT‬‬


January 16, 2022

THE MEANING OF A HUSBAND BEING THE HEAD

“A husband is the head of his wife, as Christ is the head and the Savior of the church, which is His own body.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:23‬ ‭CEV ‬‬It means that a husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to His church, not by domineering but by cherishing, going all out in his love for his wife, exactly as Christ did for the church. It is a love marked by giving and not getting. Everything a husband does and says is designed to bring the best out of his wife. And that is how a husband ought to love his wife. (See Ephesians‬ ‭5:22-28‬)


January 12, 2022

LOVE CLASS FOR HUSBANDS

“Husbands, love your wife.” (See Colossians‬ ‭3:19‬) It means that you treat your wife with patience and kindness. You are never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. You are not selfish or quick tempered. You don’t keep a record of being wronged. Instead, you are always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting. (See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭13:4-7)


January 10, 2022

THE GODLY HUSBAND MANUAL

A husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs. He belongs to his wife instead of to himself. (See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:3-4‬)

A husband has to think about his earthly responsibilities as how to please his wife. ‭‭(See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:33‬)

A husband must be good to his wife. He has to honor her and delight in her. A husband must treat his wife with understanding. She may lack some of his advantages, but she is his equal partner in God’s grace of new life. A husband must treat his wife as he should so his prayers will not be hindered. (See 1 Peter 3:7)

In other words,

“Each husband should love his wife as much as he loves himself.” Ephesians‬ ‭5:33‬ ‭CEV‬‬


November 18, 2021

CHRISTA AND I LOVE YOU

“She takes good care of her family and is never lazy. Her child praise her, and with great pride her husband says, “There are many good women, but you are the best!” Proverbs‬ ‭31:27-29‬ ‭CEV‬‬


November 11, 2021

WHEN HIS WIFE IS FROM GOD

When his wife is given to him by God the husband can truly say, “The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the Lord.” Proverbs‬ ‭18:22‬ ‭NLT‬‬


October 20, 2021

MY WIFE’S DEVOTION TO GOD

“She helps the poor and the needy.”‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:20‬ ‭CEV‬‬ That’s why, “A gracious woman will be respected.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭11:16‬ ‭CEV‬‬


August 22, 2021

FOR THE LOVE OF MY WIFE

“Life is short, and you love your wife, so enjoy being with her. This is what you are supposed to do as you struggle through life on this earth.”‭‭ Ecclesiastes‬ ‭9:9‬ ‭CEV‬‬


July 29, 2021

WIFE TALK

“She is strong and graceful, as well as cheerful about the future. Her words are sensible, and her advice is thoughtful. She takes good care of her family and is never lazy.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:25-27‬ ‭CEV‬‬

Yes! “There are many good women, but you are the best!” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:29‬ ‭CEV‬‬


April 16, 2021

FROM ME ON YOUR BIRTHDAY

I never stop being grateful for you. I pray for you constantly, asking God, the glorious Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, to give you spiritual wisdom and insight so that you might continue to grow in your knowledge of Him. God is the one who began this good work in you, and I am certain that He won’t stop before it is complete on the day that Christ Jesus returns. You have a special place in my heart!‭‭ I love you!

Ephesians‬ ‭1:16‬-17, Philippians 1:6-7


April 5, 2021

WHEN A MARRIED WOMAN IS FROM GOD

When a married woman is from God, the Bible says, she submits to her husband as to the Lord. She always puts her husband first, as the church puts Christ first.‭‭She understands and support her husband by submitting to him in ways that honors the Lord. She does good to her husband and she is responsive to his needs. Even if her husband opposes any words about God, she wins him over by what she does. No one else will have to say anything to him, because he will be captivated by her life of holy beauty.‭‭She is not concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. She does not draw attention to herself by the way she fixes her hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. She instead makes herself attractive by the good things she does. She clothes herself with the beauty that comes from her heart by being gentle and quiet. This kind of beauty will last, and God considers it very special. She does not take over her husband’s authority and tell him what to do. She puts her trust in God and accepts the authority of her husband and does what is right without letting anything frighten her. She fulfils her husband’s sexual needs. She gives authority over her body to her husband and does not deprive him of sexual intimacy. She respects her husband. She thinks about her earthly responsibilities and how to please her husband.‭‭She is does not provoke her children, causing them to be discouraged and give up.‭‭‭‭

Ephesians‬ ‭5:22‬+24, Colossians 3:18, 1 Peter 3:1-2, 1 Timothy 2:9-11, 1 Peter 3:3-6, 1 Corinthians 7:3-5, Ephesians 5:33, 1 Corinthians 7:34, Colossians 3:21


April 2, 2021

WHEN A MARRIED MAN IS FROM GOD

When a married man is from God, the Bible says, he provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to His church, not by domineering but by cherishing. He goes all out in his love for his wife, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. His words evoke his wife’s beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her. He does not hate or reject himself. He loves his wife as much as he loves himself. He loves his wife and does not abuse her. He fulfils his wife’s sexual needs. He gives authority over his body to his wife and does not deprive her of sexual intimacy.‭‭He thinks about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife. He does not provoke his children, causing them to become discouraged. He honors his wife and treats her with understanding.

‭‭‭‭(See Ephesians‬ ‭5:22-33‬, Colossians 3:19, 1 Corinthians 7:3-5, 1 Corinthians 7:33, Colossians 3:21, 1 Peter 3:7)


February 14, 2021

VALENTINE PRAISE

“Her husband praises her: “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!” Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” Proverbs‬ ‭31:28-30‬ ‭NLT‬‬


February 2, 2021

MY TWO BEAUTIFUL “As a mother comforts her child, so I’ll comfort you.” Isaiah‬ ‭66:13‬ MSG‬‬

“Praise God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! The Father is a merciful God, who always gives us comfort.” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭1:3‬ ‭CEV‬‬


April 20, 2020

THE BIBLICAL WAY FOR A HUSBAND TO TREAT HIS WIFE

IS THIS WHAT YOU EXPERIENCE WITH YOUR HUSBAND?

He loves you and does not abuse you. (See Colossians‬ ‭3:19‬) He loves you as much as Christ loved the church and gave His life for it. A love marked by giving, not getting! (See Ephesians 5:25‬) He loves you as much as he loves himself. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of you. (See Ephesians‬ ‭5:28‬) He is thoughtful of you, treating you with honor. (See 1 Peter‬ ‭3:7‬) He thinks of ways on how to please you. (See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:33‬) He is fair with you about having sex and does not refuse having sex with you, unless he agrees with you not to have sex for a little while, in order to spend time in prayer. (See 1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:3-5)